The faded elegance and fish eyeballs of Nara

Thursday, June 24, 2010, Nara, Japan, 4:30 pm –I am typing this in our room in the 101-year-old Nara Hotel, a lovely historic building that a card on my side table tells me is a “Heritage of Industrial Modernization.” I could think of some more poetic tributes, but that’s what it says. Einstein stayed here in 1922 and played the piano in the lounge downstairs. There are pics of emperors and emperors-to-be on the walls, as well. For all that, it’s surprisingly reasonable — you pay less for the old building, which has such great ambiance, and way less than a traditional Japanese ryokan. Our room has a non-working but cool fireplace and high ceilings paneled in gorgeous straight grain fir. Best of all is the air conditioning, since it is hot hot hot outside — not as humid as it has been but still it’s good to be inside in the afternoon.

Will is wearing his red ninja costume we bought yesterday at the ninja museum in Iga-Ueno, a town an hour from here that was home to an important school of ninjas. We toured a house filled with trick doors, escape hatches and hidden swords, and watched a live “ninja” demonstration. Will found it all quite cool. There was also a rebuilt samurai castle with a great view and cool old samurai weaponry and armor inside that thrilled Will. He is so much fun to travel with — he gets enthusiastic about most everything.

It was our first day without the Ahmads yesterday, which was sad, but they are off on wedding adventures. We had an amazing nine days together; it was so much fun seeing Japan through their eyes and sharing a place we love with them. Will and Ibrahim had a blast, and Asma was a delightful travel companion. We managed to blend our two totally different travel styles — Asma got me to slow down a bit, and she was nice to not complain about my “get up at the crack of dawn and go until you drop but not until after dinner” philosophy I inherited from my parents.

We left them on a Shinkansen platform in Nagoya, and I trust they are safely home now. (we got a text they had made the plane….) So since Tuesday, we have been braving the sightseeing on our own.

The past two nights we stayed in an old ryokan that emanated faded elegance — lovely large tatami mat rooms with views of a garden, even a private bath with a garden view. It was early century meets the 60s meets some serious flooding and mildew and perhaps lack of a repair and upkeep budget.

But the service was delightful — a lovely “obaasan” or grandma with a musical laugh took such good care of us, serving us amazing elaborate meals that Will ate with surprising gusto. He has become quite fearless in his eating — he declares fish eyeballs delicious, and tries everything, even when (often) we have no idea what it is. The only thing we’ve passed on is the raw fish ovaries, which Asma the OB/GYN first spotted in a market in Kyoto. Well, we were served those same ovaries two breakfasts in a row and just couldn’t do it. I managed to eat the salted sea creature guts the night before and that did my adventure quotient for the trip. We did, however, try turtle, which was beyond delicious. Will loved it. Thank god we weren’t served whale (maybe we were and didn’t know it) because we probably would have eaten it and broken some IWC regulation.

We had planned on staying two more nights in the ryokan, but the vast quantity of food for breakfast and dinner was wearing us down, so we escaped to the Nara Hotel. When you are staying at a ryokan, you feel obligated to eat everything, which is frankly impossible (especially without Rick :))

Just ask Asma — our last night in Takayama, our ryokan, in what we believe was a misguided attempt to please the boys, served us — after countless “starters” that had filled us up (we’re talking sashimi, tofu, pickles, a dish boiled over a fire on the table, among other things I’ve forgotten) — two, yes two, pizzas, along with four steaks (beef being a local specialty). And that wasn’t all. Last came rice and miso soup — which we told them to save. And finally the dessert buffet. We kid you not. I think my cholesterol shot through the roof — Asma kept saying she thought we would lose weight on the trip, and I assured her it wouldn’t be a problem, but I was wrong — I will be on a diet the rest of the summer!

So anyhow, we find ourself in this old hotel, relaxing after a busy day. We first got settled here, then visited the Kofukuji temple that has an amazing museum filled with Buddhist sculptures between 1,300 and 600- years old. Again, Will declared it the coolest place ever and told me to slow down so he could enjoy each sculpture. You’ve got to love the boy. He also finally persuaded me to buy some deer food to feed the sacred deer for which Nara is famous. The first time I tried to buy food, I got butted (yes in the butt) by a large-antlered deer and told Will to forget it. But Will begged, so I bought him some biscuits. Three large deer with significant racks chased him down — I was fending them off with my sun umbrella — and he tossed the whole bunch of biscuits at them and we ran for our lives. Ok not for our lives, but sacred or not, they are nasty.

Well it is almost dinner time, so I’d better go. Best to you all and see you soon!

Foxes, rice and the phoenix

Kyoto, Saturday, June 19, 2010, 6 p.m. — This may be our last post for a while — we enter the wifi-free zone of ryokan, the traditional Japanese inn. We had a great day in Kyoto, visiting the Fushimi Inari Shrine, the mother shrine for rice, the most important food in Japan. Because rice was once used as a means of exchange, it is also the shrine for business — and for sake, the rice wine. We wandered up a mountain lined by vermillion torii gates creating shaded tunnels up the hill. It was really fun and picturesque. The boys left wishes on a wooden plaque in the shape of a fox — the guardian animal of the shrine — on which they had drawn funny faces. I wish I could upload the photos.
We also visited the Phoenix Hall or Byoodoin, the only remaining temple from the Heian period in the 11th century. It was beautiful, its red paint faded gray, hovering like a bird over the rock-lined pond in front. The statue of Amida Buddha inside was larger than I imagined (I’d seen it in many art history slides) and very peaceful. And many green tea ice creams were consumed.
We’re now back at the hotel, enjoying a beautiful view of the eastern hills of Kyoto, against a backdrop of clouds. Asma is moving into a room with a view for our last night in Kyoto.
We’re off to Takayama in the mountains of Nagano tomorrow. It’s likely to be hot and rainy there as well, but we’re kind of used to it by now. And we’ve heard it was a whopping 48 degrees and hailing at home, so we won’t complain. We hope all is well with all our friends and family, and we’ll be in touch when we can.

Rainy season in Kyoto

Kyoto, Friday June 18 — Tsuyu, or the rainy season, hit today — making for soggy sightseeing but bringing temperatures down to the pleasant 70s. We tackled the crowds at the Kinkakuji or Golden Pavilion, the most famous of Kyoto landmarks, a gilded temple on the edge of a white and purple lotus filled pond. Quite lovely despite the crowds. We also visited the famous rock garden, Ryoanji, which was packed with Japanese high school students, some of whom interviewed us for a school project to practice their English. Then it was off to the Toei Eiga Mura, a theme park built around the sets actually used in samurai movies. We watched a live samurai/ninja show, which delighted Will and Ibrahim with all the sword fights and acrobatics. Soaked, we then made our way to a soba shop, Owariya, dating back 400 years– they had photos of the current crown prince eating there– but it was pleasantly low-key and delicious.

We then ventured to a covered food market selling everything from smoked fish ovaries (Asma identified them, much to her horror), to fresh local vegetables and tiny whole fish will gobbled from the sample trays. Will and ibrahim had on their matching japanese soccer jerseys so they drew comments everywhere– kawaii or cute” the boys want to wear them every day — fortunately we can wash them at night and they are dry morning. We are now back at the hotel, about to head out for our final adventure — a walk down a narrow red-lantern lined street called Pontocho that includes a shrine to a raccoon that is credited with saving a neighborhood from a fire 25 years ago. And you know will is crazy about raccoons!


Will’s favorite memory of the day: the ninja place. Not that he is totally without culture– this morning he told us he wanted to go see some temples!!!

Mushiatsui!!!

Tokyo, Wednesday, June 16, 2010, 8 p.m. — The day started out rainy, but it quickly became mushiatsui — hot hot hot and humid. We had a leisurely morning at the hotel before heading out on the Yamanote to a trip to Tokyo’s westside to show Asma and Ibrahim some of the sights. We rode the escalators at Takashimaya Times Square, wandered through Shinjuku Station — 2 million people pass through this station each day — and ate soba noodles on the 13th floor of a depaato, or department store.


We then went to the Tokyo Mosque nearby, a quiet oasis above the bustle of the hot streets. We saw the beautiful stained glass windows, lovely domes and took lots of photos to send home to Rehan. The Ahmads have a wonderful tradition of seeking out mosques in all the international cities they visit. The juxtapositon of the Japanese calligraphy and Arabic script carved into the white stone of the mosque was very cool. We then braved the hot streets again, the boys fortified by miruku tea purchased from vending machines.


We made our way to Omotesando, haute couture central in Japan, and visited Comme des Garcons, one of Asma’s favorite designers. We walked down the relative “cool” of the leafy, shaded Omotesando, past an incongruous Shakey’s pizza to the infamous Kiddyland, birthplace of “Snowby,” Will’s first true stuffed animal love purchased 4 1/2 years ago. Will got a new Tokyo Snoopy to give Snowby a Japanese speaking buddy.


Melting from the heat, we caught a cab to the Hachiko statue at Shibuya Station, where they boys posed in their new Japan World Cup jerseys (Will is Nakazawa, Ibrahim Nakamura) purchased at the nearby Tokyu Department store. They had on matching shorts and have been drawing stares ever since because they are so darned adorable.


We ended yet another fun exhausting day at Dhaba Indian restaurant near our hotel, which trilled Asma with its authentic south Indian food, including a totally delicious biryani and meat/potato filled dhosas. It was totally delicious, and we were sorry our other guys weren’t with us to enjoy it. Asma just reminded me that it was at an Indian restaurant in Portland that we first hatched the idea of traveleing together in Japan. Sooo glad we did it. Boys bathed, we are enjoying the last brief wi-fi we have before setting off to Kyoto tomorrow to experienced a totally different side of Japan.

Ninjas and Birthday Magic

Wednesday, June 16, 2010, Heisei 22, Tokyo — Well we made it to Tokyo and finally have wee-fee so that we can actually post something. i’m not sure we’ll post much because we have very little down time. And what downtime we have seems to be filled with two 8-year-olds fighting with foam swords and generally wreaking havoc.


Will had a truly unforgettable birthday yesterday, starting with a cake in our room with “Happy 8th Birthday Will” written in Japanese and English. We then wandered Ginza, watched World Cup soccer in 3D at the top of the Sony Center, bought foam swords at Hakuhinkan as Will’s birthday gift, had a fabulous tempura lunch at Rick’s favorite restaurant, Ten-tei.


The highlight of the day was the Ninja Akasaka restaurant, a kischty but totally fun restaurant that would never fly in the U.S. because it must break every fire code in the book. The concierge clapped her hands and a black-dressed “ninja” appeared from a secret doorway to grab a menu and lead us down and up winding corridors, complete with a drawbridge and a master ninja doing magic tricks at our table. We then — because Asma is a determined traveler, thank goodness — we ascended the Tokyo Tower and saw the beautiful lights of the city.
Gotta go, Tokyo is calling.

Time Traveling from the Land of Tea Travelers

Sunday, March 29, 2009

Saying goodbye for now
Saying goodbye for now

 Groundhog day. We lived the first morning in our ryokan in Shuzenji, then took a train to Tokyo Station, and then another to Narita Airport, then a quick smooth 8 ½ hour flight home for our second Sunday morning, March 29. We are totally jetlagging, but home and safe. Will is up sleeping; I’m just up from my nap. It’s unbelievable how small the world has become that you can pass from one such different world to another in the span of a few hours. Our ancestors would be amazed.

Fresh-ground wasabi, beero and Sinbad

Saturday, March 28, 2009

 Last day in Japan. We were so exhausted last night we fell asleep in spite of the herd of insomniac Japanese elephants in the room above us. The walls here are paper, and the floors creaky, and sound travels. They must have gotten in late, and they made quite a ruckus, and unfortunately they got up early too. Ah well, we don’t want to miss out on a minute of our vacation.

Breakfast of Champions
Breakfast of Champions

 After a two trips to the onsen, a traditional Japanese breakfast of fish, raw fish, grilled fish and unidentifiable fish, we went out for a walk around the cute little town. Today is quite cold, low 40s, so it looks like we might not venture out to either the Cycle Sports Center, a bike park, or the fake Canadian village with steam train. Too cold and gray. The boys are playing ping pong in a room downstairs at the ryokan, and I’m going to read. We’re looking forward to more sumo, more fun food, and more adventures on our last full day in Japan. Uh, oh, here come the boys!

 It was cold today, so we stayed close to home. Will went to his favorite pop-gun arcade, where the man and woman who run it love Will. They let him sit on the counter and lean way over to shoot the little clay cupids and Jesus-things in order to win small toys. Sacrilege? Nah. It’s Japan.

Popguns in Shuzenji
Popguns in Shuzenji

 We then had soba – Will’s favorite new food. We’re going to start eating soba at home, and we think we can find some converts among his more food adventurist friends – Jimmy? It was also a relief to see the Japanese tourists from Tokyo at the next table watching ME to see how to grind the fresh wasabi root into my dipping sauce. It made me feel better that we’re not along in having to have the food explained to them as well!!! Will also tried some unidentified root-gel stuff, which was quite good. We came back and took hot spring baths – Will and Rick in a lovely indoor bath with thick cedar posts brought in from Taiwan, and I in an outdoor onsen.

 The town and ryokan have become much more crowded; the tea travelers are showing crowds of new guests to their rooms and giving tours of our ryokan. They are walking on the wooden walkways over the ponds that underlie the ryokan; one of the walkways is just perpendicular to our room, so the new guests have a view of the strange foreigners in their yukata watching sumo on TV in their room.

Cherry Blossoms
Cherry Blossoms

  We felt like waving or something. I asked if we should shut the shoji to give us privacy.

 Rick said, “I don’t care.”

 Will retorted:  “I care for the door to be shut.”  And he leaped up to close the paper shoji doors.

 So we sit with our sumo, and what Rick calls “beero and Sinbad” – translated as beeru and sembei, beer and rice crackers.

 Oh no, our favorite up-and-comer Homasho just lost! Ohhhh! And now the referees have reversed the bout – his opponent pulled his hair. Homasho wins!!! Gotta go hug the boy, who is currently doing the sumo dance.

On the path of the Tea Travelers
On the path of the Tea Travelers

Baruto and his Bathroom Slippers

Friday, March 27, 2009

 Well, we checked out of our Tokyo hotel this morning and boarded the “Odoriko” Express train for Shuzenji, an old and famous onsen, or hot springs, town 2 hours southwest of Tokyo. It’s called “Odoriko,” or Dancing Girl, for the famous short story by Nobelist Yasunari Kawabata called “The Dancing Girl of Izu.” Shuzenji is located in the center of the Izu Peninsula and is famous for being the stage-set for various bloody family infighting among the Kamakura shogun families of the 12th to 14th centuries. These stories include a mother ordering the assassination of her own son, and another of a brother betrayed, imprisoned in the temple, and who later committed seppuku, or was poisoned by lacquer in his ofuro, or bath.

Yoriie Minamoto's Tomb
Yoriie Minamoto’s Tomb

 In addition, Kobo Daishi, a famous Buddhist priest, supposedly founded the Shuzenji temple in town and caused a hot spring to erupt from the ground at the spot where he saw a young boy bathing his father’s feet, trying to heal his illness. (The spring, called Tokko-no-Yu, is being rebuilt in the center of the river that runs through town, so the entire stream bed is torn up –not very picturesque, but it will be nice when it is done.)

 Much later, in the 19th and 20th centuries, Shuzenji became a favorite haunt for various famous writers and artists, including Natsume Soseki and Kawabata.

Rick-Ruto relaxing with Beer-o
Rick-Ruto relaxing with Beer-o

 Enter a 21st century writer, Baruto, or as we like to call him, Rick-ruto, after the massive Estonian sumo wrestler who is either tossed on his ear from the ring, or who literally picks up his opponents, carries them to the side of the ring, and deposits them unceremoniously outside the sumo ring. Baruto is a little hairy, a little easy to mock, and Will and I like to tease Rick that Baruto is his alter ego.

 So we arrived at this hot springs town this morning, and left our bags at an old ryokan dating back more than a century. All of the buildings are national cultural assets, which means among other things, they are old. And cold. We toured the town, its temples, shrines, gift shops and tombs of the various slain Minamoto family members, and then settled into the ryokan for our first dip in the hot springs. We went to a private “family” bath in the basement, where I could show the boys how to bathe and not get soap in the onsen. The drill is you bathe sitting down on little plastic stools, get totally clean, rinse off and only then do you enter the communal hot bath. Well, Rick got it almost right, except he tried to shower standing up, and then, God forbid, squeezed his washcloth onto the rocks that flowed into the hot onsen. I mean, that’s like, super bad. But what everyone after us doesn’t know, won’t hurt them, right?

Will in ryokan room overlooking koi pond
Will in ryokan room overlooking koi pond

 Then I had to stop another disaster when Rick wanted to use the tokonoma as a luggage rack. The raised tatami matted area called the tokonoma is a special area of the room, which features artwork such as a scroll and ikebana, or flower arrangement. Oops. Not a luggage rack.

  Our room is a large tatami-mat room, complete with attached private bath and toilet, and a little sitting area looking out on a koi-filled pond. Once we’d settled in, had our bath and were lounging in our robes, Rick-ruto pulled his gravest faux pas ever. I’d told him perhaps five times in the days leading up to the trip about the “bathroom slippers,” plastic slippers that are used in and stay in the toilet area of a bathroom. I’d been afraid he’d go answer his door at the hotel or something and have on the “potty slippers,” which would be super bad. Anyhow, I’m sitting in the tatami mat room and here comes Rick, holding the potty slippers in his bare hands, saying “Someone forgot their slippers in the potty,” implying Will had made a big transgression. I screamed, “No not the potty slippers!” Ok, so I’m being dramatic, but it was incredibly funny. And it showed how much Rick doesn’t listen to me when I’m talking.

The hall outside our room
The hall outside our room

 Will has been loving the ryokan experience and looks quite adorable in his little yukata robe and tanzen jacket. He grooved on being served dinner in our room, which was a long and elaborate meal. Rick was slightly, but not totally, freaked by the grilled pregnant fish full of eggs (he may not have known they were eggs and I didn’t have the heart to tell him, though Will noted they tasted like the tobiko on sushi); but it was the other grilled fish head, which was quite delicious, that nearly got all of us. Rick asked Will if he wanted the eye, to which Will answered that he was adventurous. However, when Rick popped the eye out with his chopsticks and it went squirting through the air, all of our gross-out meters went off. The eyeball was not eaten.

  Whenever we couldn’t finish something, it seemed to disappoint the woman who looks after us here. They have an army of kimino-clad women whom Will has dubbed “tea travelers,” because they can been seen hurrying down the corridors bringing tea to guests. Rick doesn’t want to disappoint our tea traveler, a lovely woman who serves us meals in our room and makes up our beds, so he is planning to throw what we can’t eat at tomorrow nights dinner to the carp outside. He’s just kidding, of course, but the image got us all to laughing. And then Rick said he was going to take the video camera to the all-men’s communal bath, and tell them he was going to make a Youtube video of the men’s bath,  and then he would cannonball into the onsen, and ask all the other men why they weren’t wearing their potty slippers, which being plastic are waterproof and thus perfect for the onsen. OK, maybe you had to be here, but we were all rolling on the tatami mats weeping with laughter. Perhaps we need some sleep. But much to Rick’s dismay, we have to wait for our tea traveler to lay out our futon so we can sleep. Things are tough all over.

Shuzenji Buddha
Shuzenji Buddha

52 Floors Up, Up and Away

Thursday, March 26, 2009

I’d forgotten how impossible it is to find restaurants in Tokyo. Though, as I mentioned before, it’s infinitely easier than it was before the Internet. Twenty years ago, I remember my friend Laura Silverman and I wandering the streets literally for hours, looking for a restaurant we’d heard about, before finally giving up and eating at some cheap yakitori-ya near the train station.

On Top of the World, 2005
On Top of the World, 2005

 Well, we suffered from the same predicament last night. We’d chosen Bird Land, a yakitori place in Ginza recommended by several books and websites, and set out after the sumo tournament ended. Streets are not marked here, nor are there numbered addresses. (It was funny; today, I asked a police officer where Akasaka-doori was, a totally major street, and he didn’t know. It was the street we were on.) Anyhow, we had a map, but couldn’t find the place because there was no sign on the street. I finally remembered to figure out what building it was, Tsukamato Biru, and was able to make out the kanji on a sign. We took an elevator to the basement, and lo, there was Bird Land. But it was manseki — no seats available. 

Hieijinga, Akasaka

So at 6:45, with a very hungry child, we set off for the yakitori shops under Yurakacho station. But none looked right, or I couldn’t read the menu well enough, and we finally found one near our hotel. But most of the offerings, as I inquired as to what eat item meant, were liver, heart, skin, gizzard — AAAAGh. Perhaps I’d eaten these things blissfully in the past, but somehow knowing what they were made them less appetizing. We ate some skewers, including some very delicious shiitake mushrooms — no rice, no sprite  — and came back to the hotel and crashed.

Today was Rick’s last day of his fellowship, and it was a glorious blue-sky day, though cold, and clouds moved in midday only to dissipate later. Will slept until after 9:30 (apparently the 20,000-plus step days are getting to him, not to mention that my legs are sore from hiking up and down all the subway staircases — Will refuses to let us use the escalators to increase our pedometer counts). Because we missed breakfast at the hotel, I went on-line to figure out where I could get an American-style breakfast for Will. We went to Akasaka to find a 24-hour breakfast place called Anna Miller’s, but of course, after searching, and stopping a very nice woman who used her cell phone to help us find it, we found out it had gone out of business. So we went to a creperie, ordered Will a crepe with eggs and ham on top, and of course, it was weird for Will, and he did his best to eat the eggs and ham without touching the crepe. He’s picky, but he’s becoming much less freaked out by strange food. Two years ago, he would have burst into tears. Today, he made the best of it. He’s growing up.

On top of the World 2009

We then went to our favorite donut shop, Neyn, bought another six donuts, and wandered through Akasaka to Tokyo Midtown, which is this enormous, weird skyscraper/shopping mall/art museum/park/Ritz Carlton complex that defines new Tokyo. Unfortunately, the museum was closed, much to Will’s disappointment. So we walked to Roppongi Hills, a slightly older weird skyscraper/shopping mall/art museum/park/hotel complex. There, we took an elevator to the 52nd floor of the Mori Tower, which took a bit of courage on my part, because I am afraid of heights, and skyscrapers, and earthquakes. I was picturing how wildly we would sway if a big earthquake hit! But the view was totally amazing, 360 degree view of the city stretching out as far as you could see. We could see all the places we have traveled these last seven days — it was a great capper.

 We then returned to Akasaka to find a recommended Udon restaurant, but of course, couldn’t, so we settled for a Chinese restaurant where Will devoured the fried rice and charmed the staff, though the waitress couldn’t tell if Will was a girl or boy. Perhaps he needs a haircut???

 So we’re back at the hotel, watching Yamamotoyama face an opponent half his size. He’s not been doing well, so we’re hoping for this 252-kilo underdog. (no way that’s his weight, it must be in pounds.)  Hope you are all well. We’re off tomorrow for Shuzenji and the hot springs/Japanese inn experience. Tonight, kaiten sushi, or kuru-kuru zushi, Jimmy Maslen’s favorite, on a conveyor belt. It’s usually not the best sushi, but we figure 5 minutes from the Tsukiji market, it’s gotta be way better than anything back home.