A guzen moment in Nara: Turns out Monroe is so kakouii

KYOTO, Japan, Monday, November 26, 2012 — So we’ve been a little busy and I haven’t had time to blog, but Will has been doing a fine job capturing the tenor of our days. We arrived in Kyoto yesterday and experienced the most unbelievably crowded fall leaf-viewing scene I’ve ever seen. Of course, Will was nearly in tears after we muscled our way up to Kiyomizudera, surrounded by mostly couples and families out enjoying the last of the beautiful weather, three-day holiday and fall leaves. It was insane. It reminded me of visiting Meiji Shrine in Tokyo on New Year’s Eve — massive crowds, moving forward at snail pace, patiently edging toward the goal. Once we got to the hillside temple, I kept worrying that the wooden super-structure of the temple deck, which juts out over the hillside, would collapse under the masses, but we managed to get lots of lovely photos of the temple, the city below, and the surrounding hills, all at sunset — super good planning on my part — oh right, sheer luck. We then dodged tour buses on the narrow streets leading off the hill and managed to grab a cab home.

I’ll skip today (Will will fill you in after dinner — rain rain rain!) to tell you about our crazy night in Nara. A little background: Rick and I trade barbs all the time because my mother’s family comes from Monroe, a tiny town outside Corvallis, while Rick’s mother’s family comes from the slightly larger Junction City to the south. Junction City people look down on Monroe people, and let’s just say his mother and he don’t let me forget it.

So I never thought I’d hear the word “cool,” much less the Japanese word “kakouii,” of the same meaning, in the same sentence.

 But two nights ago, I had the concierge of the Nara Hotel call to make a dinner reservation at a cool-sounding Oden (hot pot of sorts) restaurant. The staff looked at me askance, and it wasn’t until we got to the restaurant that it made sense why. It was a total hole-in-the-wall — a super cool old eatery in the old Nara-machi part of town. There was a small U-shaped bar, maybe 12 seats, and only Japanese (and Japanese menus) surrounding the bar. Well, it was a challenge for me to order for us, and I kept asking the young man next to me what they were having (I could see the food at least) and he gave me advice on food, etc. Anyhow, I really did bug him a lot, but he and his two dining companions (one of whom was his wife) were very nice.

He asked me where we were from; Oregon. He said young Japanese think of Portland as the coolest city in America. Then he said something about Corvallis, (this is all in Japanese of course) and I exclaimed I was BORN in Corvallis. And then to my shock he said the word “Monroe.” Monroe? Yes, the coolest place in America is Monroe. I just about died. I said my grandparents are buried in Monroe. My mother’s family is from Monroe. My great grandmother drove a damn antique taxi in Monroe. He couldn’t believe it. He was a designer and he had “visited” Monroe virtually on Google drive, and he thought the DariMart and other buildings just had the coolest vibe. He had made and sold T-shirts that say “Monroe Oregon,” and people actually bought them. He had photos of Monroe on his iPhone. I am not making this up, though Junction-City-Rick would like to think I am –- but Rick witnessed it, and this little tiny Oden shop in Nara, half-way around the world, yes, the guy loved Monroe. He was as shocked as I was to meet someone from Monroe. His wife said it was “guzen” and “unmei” – chance fate, that we happened to meet. What are the chances?

It made me think later about my grandpa Charlie, my mother’s dad, who was indeed from Monroe. A good friend and fishing buddy of his was of Japanese ancestry, living in Oregon, — Mom remembers his name as Yashui. His friend’s family had been interred during World War II. Anyhow, it seemed another unfinished connection between Japan and Monroe. 

Anyhow, my new friend, Yosuke Wainai, also said he loves Hemingway, Steinbeck, but mostly Raymond Carver, who is also one of our favorite writers. Anyhow, we exchanged email addresses, and our final goodbyes that we would see him and his wife in Oregon. Who knows? The world is a very small place indeed.

Buddhist monks in the morning, sacred deer and Monroe, Oregon, by night

By Will

Today we woke up to the sound of a REALLY LOUD gong. It was 5:30 in the morning and we were going to a monk-chanting thing. (Buddhist ceremony) We got dressed and went down the stairs in our cold slippers that kept on falling off. We went to this cold temple area and the monks started chanting. (For those of you who think monks go “ummmmmmm” they actually do  go”ummmmmmm!!”). It’s cool. That went on for about a hour. After that we went to a VERY traditional breakfast. We had unidentified tofu stuff, pickled something or rather, rice and…uh…what is that! But it was good.

Went to a bus then got in a cable car before getting on a train. Then the next train and on the next train there was some weird guy staring at us then he sat next to us and then he (thankfully) left.

We checked into our hotel in Nara and went to lunch at a curry restaurant. It was pretty good. In Nara they let deer just roam free all over town because they think they are sacred or something. So the first deer you see it is like: “OMG A DEER JUST SITTING THERE IN THE ROAD” After you have seen fifty deer you act more normal when you see them.

We went to see some temples and shrines. After that we went back to the hotel and watched this show where these two guys with helmets and padding tried to whack each other with wooden swords. That was REALLY entertaining.

We went to dinner at this place that was sort of a bar with food. My mom met this guy who made T-shirts for this SUPER small place my mom’s family was from called Monroe, Oregon. Small world. It was cool. After that we went home and went to bed.

The faded elegance and fish eyeballs of Nara

Thursday, June 24, 2010, Nara, Japan, 4:30 pm –I am typing this in our room in the 101-year-old Nara Hotel, a lovely historic building that a card on my side table tells me is a “Heritage of Industrial Modernization.” I could think of some more poetic tributes, but that’s what it says. Einstein stayed here in 1922 and played the piano in the lounge downstairs. There are pics of emperors and emperors-to-be on the walls, as well. For all that, it’s surprisingly reasonable — you pay less for the old building, which has such great ambiance, and way less than a traditional Japanese ryokan. Our room has a non-working but cool fireplace and high ceilings paneled in gorgeous straight grain fir. Best of all is the air conditioning, since it is hot hot hot outside — not as humid as it has been but still it’s good to be inside in the afternoon.

Will is wearing his red ninja costume we bought yesterday at the ninja museum in Iga-Ueno, a town an hour from here that was home to an important school of ninjas. We toured a house filled with trick doors, escape hatches and hidden swords, and watched a live “ninja” demonstration. Will found it all quite cool. There was also a rebuilt samurai castle with a great view and cool old samurai weaponry and armor inside that thrilled Will. He is so much fun to travel with — he gets enthusiastic about most everything.

It was our first day without the Ahmads yesterday, which was sad, but they are off on wedding adventures. We had an amazing nine days together; it was so much fun seeing Japan through their eyes and sharing a place we love with them. Will and Ibrahim had a blast, and Asma was a delightful travel companion. We managed to blend our two totally different travel styles — Asma got me to slow down a bit, and she was nice to not complain about my “get up at the crack of dawn and go until you drop but not until after dinner” philosophy I inherited from my parents.

We left them on a Shinkansen platform in Nagoya, and I trust they are safely home now. (we got a text they had made the plane….) So since Tuesday, we have been braving the sightseeing on our own.

The past two nights we stayed in an old ryokan that emanated faded elegance — lovely large tatami mat rooms with views of a garden, even a private bath with a garden view. It was early century meets the 60s meets some serious flooding and mildew and perhaps lack of a repair and upkeep budget.

But the service was delightful — a lovely “obaasan” or grandma with a musical laugh took such good care of us, serving us amazing elaborate meals that Will ate with surprising gusto. He has become quite fearless in his eating — he declares fish eyeballs delicious, and tries everything, even when (often) we have no idea what it is. The only thing we’ve passed on is the raw fish ovaries, which Asma the OB/GYN first spotted in a market in Kyoto. Well, we were served those same ovaries two breakfasts in a row and just couldn’t do it. I managed to eat the salted sea creature guts the night before and that did my adventure quotient for the trip. We did, however, try turtle, which was beyond delicious. Will loved it. Thank god we weren’t served whale (maybe we were and didn’t know it) because we probably would have eaten it and broken some IWC regulation.

We had planned on staying two more nights in the ryokan, but the vast quantity of food for breakfast and dinner was wearing us down, so we escaped to the Nara Hotel. When you are staying at a ryokan, you feel obligated to eat everything, which is frankly impossible (especially without Rick :))

Just ask Asma — our last night in Takayama, our ryokan, in what we believe was a misguided attempt to please the boys, served us — after countless “starters” that had filled us up (we’re talking sashimi, tofu, pickles, a dish boiled over a fire on the table, among other things I’ve forgotten) — two, yes two, pizzas, along with four steaks (beef being a local specialty). And that wasn’t all. Last came rice and miso soup — which we told them to save. And finally the dessert buffet. We kid you not. I think my cholesterol shot through the roof — Asma kept saying she thought we would lose weight on the trip, and I assured her it wouldn’t be a problem, but I was wrong — I will be on a diet the rest of the summer!

So anyhow, we find ourself in this old hotel, relaxing after a busy day. We first got settled here, then visited the Kofukuji temple that has an amazing museum filled with Buddhist sculptures between 1,300 and 600- years old. Again, Will declared it the coolest place ever and told me to slow down so he could enjoy each sculpture. You’ve got to love the boy. He also finally persuaded me to buy some deer food to feed the sacred deer for which Nara is famous. The first time I tried to buy food, I got butted (yes in the butt) by a large-antlered deer and told Will to forget it. But Will begged, so I bought him some biscuits. Three large deer with significant racks chased him down — I was fending them off with my sun umbrella — and he tossed the whole bunch of biscuits at them and we ran for our lives. Ok not for our lives, but sacred or not, they are nasty.

Well it is almost dinner time, so I’d better go. Best to you all and see you soon!

Foxes, rice and the phoenix

Kyoto, Saturday, June 19, 2010, 6 p.m. — This may be our last post for a while — we enter the wifi-free zone of ryokan, the traditional Japanese inn. We had a great day in Kyoto, visiting the Fushimi Inari Shrine, the mother shrine for rice, the most important food in Japan. Because rice was once used as a means of exchange, it is also the shrine for business — and for sake, the rice wine. We wandered up a mountain lined by vermillion torii gates creating shaded tunnels up the hill. It was really fun and picturesque. The boys left wishes on a wooden plaque in the shape of a fox — the guardian animal of the shrine — on which they had drawn funny faces. I wish I could upload the photos.
We also visited the Phoenix Hall or Byoodoin, the only remaining temple from the Heian period in the 11th century. It was beautiful, its red paint faded gray, hovering like a bird over the rock-lined pond in front. The statue of Amida Buddha inside was larger than I imagined (I’d seen it in many art history slides) and very peaceful. And many green tea ice creams were consumed.
We’re now back at the hotel, enjoying a beautiful view of the eastern hills of Kyoto, against a backdrop of clouds. Asma is moving into a room with a view for our last night in Kyoto.
We’re off to Takayama in the mountains of Nagano tomorrow. It’s likely to be hot and rainy there as well, but we’re kind of used to it by now. And we’ve heard it was a whopping 48 degrees and hailing at home, so we won’t complain. We hope all is well with all our friends and family, and we’ll be in touch when we can.